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Welcome to the Swingers subreddit. Any questions regarding The Lifestyle, please post here and you will be answered by our many great members.

*Do not post r4r posts here (looking to meet), instead post them in r/swingersr4r

*Do not post pics of your junk or your nude wife with the title "What would you do to her?", instead post those in r/swingersgw

New to Swinging? Check out the Wiki.

Swinger Meeting Websites:

A list of all of them here.


  • Everybody Swing - Website -Youtube 1. Youtube 2. - Moderators of this subreddit (Matt and Bianca) have two YouTube video podcasts.**

  • Life on the Swingset - Website - iTunes - Stitcher - They cover a lot of Poly issues as well.

  • We Gotta Thing - Website - iTunes - Another great couple sharing their experiences.

  • That Couple Next Door - Website - Also on this subreddit!

  • Swinging Down Under - Website - Sexy Australians!

  • By the Bi - Website - Great for bisexuality in the lifestyle!

  • Bed Hoppers - Website - Sexy Brits!

  • Krazy Truth - Website - No nonsense lifestyle conversations.

  • Real Talk Lifestyle - Website - Worth checking out.

  • Sharing is Caring - Website - A new but noteworthy one.

Great Books on Swinging:

Swinger Subreddits:

  • /r/Swingers The main swinger subreddit

  • /r/SwingersGW NSFW - Post your nudes here

  • /r/SwingersR4R - Post your hookup requests here

  • /r/SwingerTravel - Sexy vacation stuff.

  • /r/LifestyleLadies - Private subreddit. Must be verified real to join..

Swinger Websites

  • OpenLove101 - Website of John and Jackie Melfi, Owners of the Colette Lifestyle Clubs

Swinger Resorts



Be a Good Community Member Please adhere to proper Reddiquette!

No R4R or Other Connection Posts or Comments Please do not post looking for people, including play partners, mentors, meetup participants, or discussion group members. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersr4r or other r4r sub.

This keeps the sub focused on discussion.

No Titillating Pictures Please do not post naked/scantily clad pics, videos, or links to same. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersgw .

No Titillating Stories Stories are great, if they're for the purpose of generating discussions or generating questions. However, stories—fictional or otherwise—should not be posted here.

Studies Must Be Vetted Swingers always want to know more about swinging, so we're happy to allow posts seeking study participation on non-monogamy and swinging. However, studies must be vetted. Simply send a mod message with your name, the name of the sponsoring professor and the university. One of us will reach out and confirm the study's validity.

No Doxing Posting of anyone's lifestyle site's screen name or kik name or any other profile information is strictly forbidden. Do not post anyone's pictures. Do not make any attempt to out anyone. Violation of this rule may result in an immediate bad from r/swingers.

The most common phrases the members use:

each other
other people
post history
ever done
dirty talk

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