/r/dating: vent, discuss, learn!

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A subreddit to discuss and the dating process and learn from the experiences of others#### Description NIGHT MODE NORMAL

Welcome to /r/dating. A subreddit to discuss and vent about the dating process and learn from the experiences of others!

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Be polite and respect each other.

  • No sexism, racism, homophobia, ad hominem posts, or rudeness will be tolerated.
  • If you do not agree with a post, ignore it and move on.

This is a not a place to get dates

  • This sub is mainly for talking about dating experiences, advice, and questions.
  • For actual reddit dating, try one of the subreddits listed below

No Spam or Self-Promotion

  • Spam will not be tolerated and repeated offenses will result in a ban.
  • Take out an ad on reddit instead of promoting your blog or app here
  • Surveys must be moderator approved with appropriate documentation

NSFW posts must be marked

  • Posts involving nudity or sexual content must be marked NSFW

No Personal Information

  • Do NOT give out any contact information or any personal information in public posts.
  • Please send your contact information via a PM only.

No soapboxing or promoting an agenda.

  • This means keeping red pill, seduction/PUA, incel, pinkpill, purplepill, FDS, and blackpill material out of /r/dating. Please note that is not an all-inclusive list. Users found to be engaging in such rhetoric will be met with an immediate ban
  • This includes trolling and being inflammatory with broad brush generalizations.

No Reposting

  • You are not allowed to delete your posts and post again if you are not satisfied with the answers

  • Try to limit yourself to one post every 24 hours


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If you have an issue with the content on the subreddit, use the report button or contact the moderators.

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  • /r/r4r
  • /r/asiandate
  • /r/OkCupid
  • /r/coffeemeetsbagel
  • /r/POF
  • /r/PlentyofFish
  • /r/datingoverthirty
  • /r/single or /r/singles
  • /r/CommittedDating


  • /r/relationships
  • /r/relationship_advice
  • /r/dating_advice/
  • /r/penpals
  • /r/sex
  • /r/AskMen
  • /r/AskWomen


The most common phrases the members use:

feel like
first date
dating apps
dont know
other person

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